Jacqueline Charlotte Dufresnoy (1931-2006), better known by her stage name Coccinelle, was a French actress, entertainer and singer. She was transgender and became famous during the late 1950s as one of Europe’s first women to undergo gender reassignment surgery. Already a popular singer and performer, her medical transition in 1958 made her hugely well known.

She has released two EPs: Tu T’Fous De Moi (1959) and Cherchez la femme (1963). Coccinelle worked extensively as an activist on behalf of transgender people, founding the organization “Devenir Femme” (To Become Woman), which was designed to provide emotional and practical support for those seeking gender reassignment surgery. She also helped establish the Center for Aid, Research, and Information for Transsexuality and Gender Identity. In addition, her first marriage was the first union to be officially acknowledged by the government of France, establishing transgender persons’ legal right to marry.

Pour moi la vie n’a pas de problème
Mais simplement je veux que tu m’aimes
Prends moi ou laisse moi
Mais je t’en prie, décide-toi

For me life has no problem
But I just want you to love me
Take me or leave me
But please make up your mind

Je peux trouver d’autres bras, d’autres lèvres
Mais tu es seul à me donner la fièvre
Prends moi ou laisse moi
Mais je t’en prie, décide-toi

I can find other arms, other lips
But you’re the only one giving me fever
Take me or leave me
But please make up your mind

Pour moi, un homme doit être en somme
Comme toi, toi, toi
Tu me plais, je veux te garder
Pour moi, moi, moi

For me, a man must be in short
Like you, you, you
I like you, I want to keep you
For me, me, me

Je veux ton amour
Mais pas pour un seul jour
Si je me donne, ce sera pour toujours
Prends moi ou laisse moi
Mais je t’en prie, décide-toi

I want your love
But not just for one day
If I give myself, it will be forever
Take me or leave me
But please make up your mind

Pour moi, un homme doit être en somme
Comme toi, oui, chéri comme toi
Tu me plais, je veux te garder
Pour moi, moi, moi

For me, a man must be in short
Like you, yes, baby like you
I like you, I want to keep you
For me, me, me

Je veux ton amour
Mais pas pour un seul jour
Si je me donne, ce sera pour toujours
Prends moi ou laisse moi
Mais je t’en prie, décide-toi

I want your love
But not just for one day
If I give myself, it will be forever
Take me or leave me
But please make up your mind